yeah i know a lot of kids from new jersey as a result of falling in with that scene. i've distanced myself a lot from it in the past year or so, but they are still a great live band. the cha-cha's coney island show was the prototypical inferno show. not even fifteen minutes into the set the management called the cops because we were diving off the bars and basically tearing the place down from the inside. the band led a procession out of the bar and played heart attack 64 on the boardwalk. everybody waltzed and sang along while a bunch of confused NYPD expecting to break up a bunch of rowdy punks looked on in bewilderment.
that's good to hear that you are coping. but if you want to talk about it let me know (better do that on facebook thou, can't be bothered much with this place as much as i used too). i am logging off ere now and doin' house hold chores! Bye MR x