From intelligent decent parent(s). The only good line from the bible or commandments or whatever is: 'Treat others as you would like them to treat you.'
You don't need a bible, church, or any man made bullshit to teach you more about that one simple sentence. It's not rocket science.
Well yes and no. Theres been massive societal pressures to focus on what makes people different and victims rather than what makes us similar. This is so we don't club together and make the government responsible for not doing their job and betraying the post they have, of making sure that everyone they represent has "mostly a nice time" Then theres the pressures of comparing what you have with what someone else has and somehow having more things means you have meaning and to "get ahead" A lot of this is brainwashing through media, movies, youtube, music heros etc which makes the individual feel inferior. So out of all these things "treat others like you would like to be treated" doesn't factor as a major driver of behavior.
As an example someone whos posts you have liked has been persecuting some woman on another thread. I dont know her, but essentially she likes a band and a singer and its added to her experience of life. Nothing wrong with that. He has made out that he knows her to the core and judges her absolutely, has read her secret most inner thoughts and she is a racist and a fascist and full of HATE and a supporter of paedophillia and sexist and so on. He has added the word f*** to the front of her name. He has done this with the help of a couple of other actors. None of the labels are theirs. None of these ideas are theirs. Im not even sure their behavior was theirs but more their group identity. The woman didn't have a group identity she just liked the music of Morrissey and the Smiths. Now clearly they didnt focus on what they had in common with the woman which is that they like the Smiths and it improved their experience of life. The guy who persecuted the woman is probably a very fine fellow but his behavior has been bad because in his view that lady was a line of text, sub human and he had a bad day or felt weellll ....life. So I followed him about the site and highlighted in practical ways that there is no moral highground in making a person feel bad using ideology you dont own to beat her with. Now out of this
The persecutors and not bad people they are good and bad but their behavior was bad
The lady isnt a bad person she is good and bad and she was made to feel bad
I am not a bad person I am good and bad who demonstrated self justified bad behavior
You are not a bad person you are good and bad but you liked a post
There are mixed messages in todays society. Religeon gives you a reason to choose to be the person who treats others as you would like them to treat you so you can grow in a feeling of peace and calmness. It gives you reasons to ignore the conflicting messages of ego gratification or bling as a measure of success because you want that feeling of spiritual enlightenment that you get from acknowledging someone elses humanity. Christianity got you to this point in society and kept you mostly OK for 2000 years. Be careful what you replace it with.
When the fellow that said these things acknowledges his behavior wasnt great then apologies to her for making her feel bad because he feels that would help him grow as a person then we will have some progress dont you agree?