Life is never kind
Contrarian is the word you are looking for.
I can and do change my mind about all sorts of things daily. New evidence has me continually re-evaluating my positions. That is what reasonable thinkers do. You see it as see-sawing, right? Truth is, I'm on the fence when it comes to Moz. Not sure what to make of him. If I wasn't a fan of his music, I would be judging him much harder than I am. I am aware of my biases. And btw, why can't I argue a position for fun? Who says I can't?
I am not trying to please anyone but myself, thanks. Do you honestly think a people pleaser would write the things I write? No. Most are gentle, quiet, complaint, agreeable. I can't please everyone, or hardly anyone. It is a waste of time trying.
Oh, and I forgot you don't think I'm reasonable. You change daily? You changed your tone in a matter of five seconds...