honestly, i'm sad. she's sad. we may go to counseling. we love eachother very much. we've talked about it before, but never followed through with it. i took the first step Sunday, and if anything, i'm seeking counsel as an individual.
the main reason i broke up with her is that i was holding her down and preventing her from growing as an individual. i am a very controlling indivual and i hope to break this habit.
thanks for listening!