Interesting one this. I've always admired ex-couples who remain friends. I could never manage it, although I am particularly immature and irresponsible. I think you should always go with your head. Your heart is a wayward, out of control monster that will lead you to disaster and oblivion.
My first boyfriend became my best friend for about 6 years after we broke up. We were really close until he moved to New York and decided he could only hang out with fellow musicians. He's the only ex I ever kept in contact with, besides one drunk dial from an ex asking if I'd paint a picture of Tupac for him.
If the relationship is 100% behind you and you have no more romantic feelings for one another, I believe a friendship is not out of the question. I am, however, ruthlessly monogamous and I believe that if you're using this friendship as a guise to destroy someone else's relationship, you should be ashamed of yourself.
that dominate the site these days, right? 
Because sometimes close friends and family can't be very partial and its good to seek outside advice for certain things. At least in my situations thats it true.
You are not as anonymous as you think.
Help me out then!
